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A World of Wonder – The Unexpected Beauty of Cremation Ashes
Imagine holding a tiny urn in your hands, its weight a whisper of the life it once contained. Within, a world of wonder unfolds, not in vibrant hues, but in the subtle dance of light and shadow, a testament to the unique and extraordinary being who is now gone.
This is the world of cremation ashes, a world where beauty emerges from loss, and where memories find a new form to hold onto.
For us here at Megan Goldner Desings, we are in a world of wonder marvelling at the uniqueness of each special parcel we receive.

Each person is a universe unto themselves, a tapestry woven from experiences, relationships, and the quiet hum of their own existence. And just as each life is unique, so too are the ashes that remain.
Forget the sterile uniformity of textbooks; cremains are a kaleidoscope of colour, ranging from the soft whisper of pearl to the rich depths of umber, to the deepest shades of obsidian and charcoal.

The fascinating range of colours and textures we see in cremains is primarily influenced by these key factors:
- the composition of the cremated body
- the physical appearance of the cremated body
- the chosen cremation method.
Composition:
The human body is primarily composed of four elements: Oxygen, Carbon, Hydrogen & Nitrogen.
Additional elements found in trace amounts include Calcium, Phosphorus, Potassium, Sulphur, Sodium, Magnesium to name a few. The specific proportions of these elements and their combustion characteristics contribute to the difference in appearance of cremains.
Physical appearance:
The physical appearance of the cremated body speaks volumes. An animal, or infant leaves behind a whisper of a few kilograms, while the weight of a life well-lived rests heavier in the hand. The average weight of a cremated adult human is 2 – 5 kilograms.
Cremation Method:
Traditional Flame cremation will typically create darker shades of ashes due to oxidation taking place whereas Aquamation (or Alkaline hydrolysis) is a gentler, eco-friendly alternative that uses water rather than flame that leaves behind ashes that are lighter in hue, a testament to the purity of the journey.

Connecting ashes and energy
While the scientific elements tell one story of colour and composition, some believe a subtler narrative unfolds – the whispers of the energetic body.
For each life holds a unique symphony of vibrations, an essence woven from personality, experiences, and the very spark of life force. And just as this energy shaped their living presence, it echoes even in the quiet hush of ashes.
No two souls resonate at the same frequency, and just as each person and pet carries a distinct personality, their energetic signature remains woven within the cremated remains.
The playful exuberance of a dog might manifest in lighter, sun-kissed hues, while the wisdom of a long life painted in the embers of deep earth tones. Every nuance a testament to the individuality that transcends even the veil of physical form.

Nature’s own fingerprint, no two sets of ashes tell the same tale. Explore the kaleidoscope of shades and textures, each a brushstroke on the canvas of a remarkable existence.






So, the next time you hold an urn in your hands, remember that it is not just a vessel of loss, but a canvas of memory. In the swirling shades of ash, a story unfolds, a testament to the life that once burned bright.
It is a world of wonder, waiting to be explored, a reminder that even in the ashes, beauty endures.
We know that losing a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences we face. For over a decade, we’ve helped countless families navigate this time with care and understanding.
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From the start, she treated such a precious and emotional keepsake with care and respect. Each piece is unique, beautifully made, and allows us to carry a part of my mom with us every day. The attention to detail is incredible, and you can see the love and craftsmanship that went into every item.
She was kind, professional, and kept me informed throughout the process. Receiving these pieces brought comfort to our family during a difficult time, and we will treasure them forever.
Thank you for creating something so special and meaningful for us.
From the start, she treated such a precious and emotional keepsake with care and respect. Each piece is unique, beautifully made, and allows us to carry a part of my mom with us every day. The attention to detail is incredible, and you can see the love and craftsmanship that went into every item.
She was kind, professional, and kept me informed throughout the process. Receiving these pieces brought comfort to our family during a difficult time, and we will treasure them forever.
Thank you for creating something so special and meaningful for us.
Pixie was my soulmate and my constant companion for almost 17 years. When he passed away, I wanted something that would allow me to carry a part of him with me every day, but I also wanted the pieces to tell his story and reflect the bond we shared.
From the very beginning, Megan treated my keepsakes with such kindness, patience and respect. I arrived with very specific ideas, a lot of emotions, and probably far too many messages and reference photos, yet she never made me feel like a burden. She took the time to explain the process, answer my questions, and guide me through decisions when my grief made it difficult to see clearly.
The ocean pendant is absolutely breathtaking. The colours, depth and movement are beautiful, and seeing Pixie’s ashes incorporated into a scene that holds such meaning for me brought me to tears.
My keepsake pendant is equally special. Being able to see Pixie’s fur and ashes preserved together means more to me than I can ever explain. Knowing that a part of him is always with me brings an incredible sense of comfort.
What touched me most was the care taken with every detail, right down to the unexpected little pocket heart included in the package. Opening the box was an emotional experience, and it was clear that these pieces were created with genuine compassion and understanding.
These are not simply pieces of jewellery. They are tangible pieces of love, memory and connection.
Thank you, Megan, for helping me carry my Pixie with me, always. 🩵
Pixie was my soulmate and my constant companion for almost 17 years. When he passed away, I wanted something that would allow me to carry a part of him with me every day, but I also wanted the pieces to tell his story and reflect the bond we shared.
From the very beginning, Megan treated my keepsakes with such kindness, patience and respect. I arrived with very specific ideas, a lot of emotions, and probably far too many messages and reference photos, yet she never made me feel like a burden. She took the time to explain the process, answer my questions, and guide me through decisions when my grief made it difficult to see clearly.
The ocean pendant is absolutely breathtaking. The colours, depth and movement are beautiful, and seeing Pixie’s ashes incorporated into a scene that holds such meaning for me brought me to tears.
My keepsake pendant is equally special. Being able to see Pixie’s fur and ashes preserved together means more to me than I can ever explain. Knowing that a part of him is always with me brings an incredible sense of comfort.
What touched me most was the care taken with every detail, right down to the unexpected little pocket heart included in the package. Opening the box was an emotional experience, and it was clear that these pieces were created with genuine compassion and understanding.
These are not simply pieces of jewellery. They are tangible pieces of love, memory and connection.
Thank you, Megan, for helping me carry my Pixie with me, always. 🩵
These aren’t just pieces of jewelry; they hold the ashes of my precious furbabies—Ollie, Buddy, and Kuschel.
Having them with me in such a tangible way made this Mother’s Day incredibly special.
I am so grateful to have a tangible piece of them with me every day.
Megan’s service is truly above and beyond. She puts so much care and attention into every detail, providing a level of personalized service that is rare to find.
When it comes to something this meaningful, I wouldn’t trust anyone else.
If you are looking for a way to keep your loved ones close, I cannot recommend Megan highly enough 🤍🐾🐾🐾🤍
These aren’t just pieces of jewelry; they hold the ashes of my precious furbabies—Ollie, Buddy, and Kuschel.
Having them with me in such a tangible way made this Mother’s Day incredibly special.
I am so grateful to have a tangible piece of them with me every day.
Megan’s service is truly above and beyond. She puts so much care and attention into every detail, providing a level of personalized service that is rare to find.
When it comes to something this meaningful, I wouldn’t trust anyone else.
If you are looking for a way to keep your loved ones close, I cannot recommend Megan highly enough 🤍🐾🐾🐾🤍
From start to finish, everything was handled with such professionalism, care, and sensitivity. The whole process was thoughtful and reassuring, which meant so much to me.
There are no words that could truly express how grateful I am for this beautiful piece of jewellery. It is more than a ring — it is something deeply meaningful that I will treasure forever.
I highly recommend Megan. Her kindness, professionalism, and attention to detail made this an experience I will always be thankful for. Thank you for creating something so special and precious.
From start to finish, everything was handled with such professionalism, care, and sensitivity. The whole process was thoughtful and reassuring, which meant so much to me.
There are no words that could truly express how grateful I am for this beautiful piece of jewellery. It is more than a ring — it is something deeply meaningful that I will treasure forever.
I highly recommend Megan. Her kindness, professionalism, and attention to detail made this an experience I will always be thankful for. Thank you for creating something so special and precious.
Megan was incredibly helpful. I contacted her, scheduled a virtual meeting, shared my vision for the keepsake, and discussed all my concerns. She created the most beautiful keepsake ring, filled with the ashes of our beloved Great Dane.
I would highly recommend Megan! I’ve had my ring for a year now, and it still looks as perfect as the day I received it.
Megan was incredibly helpful. I contacted her, scheduled a virtual meeting, shared my vision for the keepsake, and discussed all my concerns. She created the most beautiful keepsake ring, filled with the ashes of our beloved Great Dane.
I would highly recommend Megan! I’ve had my ring for a year now, and it still looks as perfect as the day I received it.
Both pieces are beautifully crafted and hold such deep emotional value. I wear them every day and find so much comfort knowing a part of my brother is always with me. The quality, care, and attention to detail are evident in every aspect of the jewelry and the service. This has truly been one of the most touching and worthwhile purchases I’ve ever made. I can’t recommend them highly enough to anyone looking for a lasting, tangible way to honor a loved one.
Both pieces are beautifully crafted and hold such deep emotional value. I wear them every day and find so much comfort knowing a part of my brother is always with me. The quality, care, and attention to detail are evident in every aspect of the jewelry and the service. This has truly been one of the most touching and worthwhile purchases I’ve ever made. I can’t recommend them highly enough to anyone looking for a lasting, tangible way to honor a loved one.
I LOVE my charmS!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you very much, I didn’t know you will be sending both 😍 …
I LOVE my charmS!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you very much, I didn’t know you will be sending both 😍 …
Love the work ,high quality
Love the work ,high quality
I wanted to get a ring and dragonfly necklace made with ashes from our 2 fur babies that we had lost in the last 2 years – they meant the world to us and were very close and I wanted to find someone who would treat the whole process with respect. Megan is that person.
Right from my very first correspondence she was helpful, friendly and constantly kept me updated on my order. I felt part of the process the whole way through, with WA chats discussing colors, designs, etc. and getting update videos and pictures.
Even the courier service getting ashes to her and getting order back was seamless, with updates at all stages.
Would definitely recommend to anyone!
I wanted to get a ring and dragonfly necklace made with ashes from our 2 fur babies that we had lost in the last 2 years – they meant the world to us and were very close and I wanted to find someone who would treat the whole process with respect. Megan is that person.
Right from my very first correspondence she was helpful, friendly and constantly kept me updated on my order. I felt part of the process the whole way through, with WA chats discussing colors, designs, etc. and getting update videos and pictures.
Even the courier service getting ashes to her and getting order back was seamless, with updates at all stages.
Would definitely recommend to anyone!

